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The Judgement card will come up when you have realized a fundamental truth, whether about yourself, someone else, or a situation. This is a new found realization that has changed you, or will change you. When you remove all of your layers to reveal who you are underneath it all. You discover what you need to become or be whole. Judgement speaks of finding enlightenment or/and renewal. If you asked about a relationship, Judgement is telling you that you must be honest with yourself about what it is you really want. This is not a good or bad card, it's about realizing what is important to you. Either way, your partner does or does not add up to these standards, and you must decide what to do next. You may be deciding if someone has the qualities you desire in a partner, but you will know the answer without any hesitation.
Reversed
Choosing to ignore what you already know. Staying in a situation that you know is wrong and/or unsatisfying. Losing yourself with the wants of others. You have decided to suppress the truth and live in denial. In a relationship, you have realized this person has no qualities that you admire in a partner, and it is most likely a dead-end situation, yet you stay.
21-The World
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Reversed
The World reversed is when you give up and never reach your goal. What you had hoped to accomplish has now become a disappointment. You have a pessimistic attitude that is holding you back. Change how you think if you want to be successful. If you asked about a relationship, don't expect to receive an engagement ring anytime soon. If you are already married, the marriage is not what you had imagined, maybe more difficulties than expected. If you asked about a potential love interest, he is not interested in a committed relationship.